Sunday, December 25, 2005

The Triumph of a Magnificent Failure

This was a piece we learned way back in 1st year HS and was part of our annual Sibol Christmas play "Come to the Manger". Thanks to Lex for sending it to me since my memory is really bad and I couldn't remember it verbatim.

 

It's really a wonderful essay and seems to capture Christmas and Christianity.

 

Well it's my simple way of wishing everyone a Blessed Christmas!

 

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The Triumph of a Magnificent Failure

- Anonymous

 

He was the son of a young peasant woman, born on a wintry night in a cave where animals were kept, in a village far from civilization.  The husband of his mother was not even his father, yet he was accepted as a son and taught a carpenter's trade, and worked in obscurity for thirty years.

 

Then for three short years he was a wandering preacher.  He never wrote a book, nor was he ever appointed or elected to an office.  Nor did he ever go to college, nor traveled to a big city, nor wandered more than a few kilometers from where he was born.  He was never married, nor did he sire children, nor did he own a house, nor did he ever go into business and make money.  He did none of the things a great man usually does.

 

He was poor and despised, but he was good and gentle and just.  He was full of ideas, great ideas that threatened to topple an empire, ideas that were to change the face of the earth.

 

He was a real revolutionary.  He was like the communists in a certain sense, in that he wanted everyone to have a share in the wealth of the world.  But unlike the communists, he did not say, "What is yours is mine!"  He said, "What is mine, is yours!"

 

Becase he was an agitator, he incurred the disfavor of men of great wealth and political power.  They drove him our of their cities.  They beat him up and called him a fool, and set the police of his friends. 

 

Finally they arrested him.  A friend betrayed him.  The rest of his friends deserted him.  And he went through the mockery of a trial.

 

His enemies tortured him, and when they got tired of doing that, they sent him to die like a common criminal.  While he was dying, his executioners gambled for the only piece of property he had on earth and that his tattered robe.  And when he died, he was buried in a borrowed grave through the pity of a friend.

 

Was he a failure, this man they called Jesus Christ?

 

The story does not end there.

 

Almost two thousand years have come and gone, yet all the armies that ever marched, all the navies that ever sailed, all the wars that were ever fought, all the treaties that were ever signed, all the parliaments that ever sat, all the kings and emperors and great leaders that ever reigned and ruled, all put together, have not affected the life of Man here on earth as much as this poor wretch who was born in obscurity and died a failure.

 

After he died, his ideas did topple empires, did change the face of the earth.  And even now his influence is felt in every nation, in every city, in the heart of every man.

 

Those of us who feel the bitterness and frustration of a lost cause should take heart from the final triumph of such a Magnificent Failure.

Wednesday, November 30, 2005

Sapupu Sapsaps




The Mythical Team of the Sapupu Sapsaps!

Kulang pa sina Doodle, Eric, Vic, and BJ!

Friday, November 25, 2005

Robotech Intro




My favorite cartoon... such a fan that I played the RPG... not the PC game... the real RPG with dice and books... such a nerd. Hehe...

Quiet on Multiply

It's been a quiet week on Multiply with very few uploads or comments made...


It's funny since I've gotten so used to seeing new pictures, videos, journal entries, or comments that you kinda start looking for them. Especially if you're far away and it becomes one of the few modes of communication with friends. It's nice to know where people have been and what they've been up to... or just to banter around spewing comments on any little thing...


Hehe... well at least this entry will give some of you something to read. =)


Oh well... back to reading...

Thursday, November 17, 2005

Sunday, November 13, 2005

Manchester with Tito Jojo




My Tito Jojo arrived last friday to visit me here in Manchester while on a business trip... he had the weekend off so we spent it shopping, going around museums, visiting Manchester United Stadium, my school, and my dorm... and of course... EATING!!! =)

Had a great time! It's really really wonderful to see a familiar face. A good break before hell month starts (the whole of november before 4 major papers are due... haay...).

Sunday, October 30, 2005

Daytrip to London with Relatives!




Surprise! Surprise! My dad's brother and his family were in London this week! So a daytrip is planned and off I go to visit the Queen (although I didn't get to see her once I was there).

My tito's family stayed in a 17th century house which was formerly owned by a maker of playing cards... hence the house was designed with cards in mind... 52 rooms... with the 4 suites as basis for the decors... the house is currently owned by Tate and Lyle and is used to house all their visiting officers in London and as a venue for official business meetings and formal functions.

Sunday, October 23, 2005

Weekend Day Trip to Wales




Visited the walled town of Conwy and the picturesque village of Betws-y-coed.

Thursday, September 22, 2005

Mottram Hall - IDPM DEPP Cluster Orientation




The IDPM Development Economics and Public Policy Cluster orientation was held at the 4-star Mottram Hall in the outskirts of Manchester for 1 whole day. =)

Tuesday, September 13, 2005

My first few days at Manchester




Some pix I took with my phone. Manchester is a small city... nice and quaint. Lovely as the brits would say. =) Right now, it has very nice weather. Baguio all day! But really, everything is pricey. A payphone call is £0.30 or P30!!! And a 1 week bus ride is £3 or P300!!! A can of coke for P60 and text messaging using the local carriers is £0.10 each or P10 per text! Crazy. Oh well... Enjoy naman so far. =)

Wednesday, August 10, 2005

Sicilian Express

Rating:★★★★
Category:Restaurants
Cuisine: Pizza
Location:Meralco Ave, Ortigas Center, Pasig City
A new pizza parlor in town! But this one is really really good!
I'm a pizza lover and I love how they make theirs. It's a cross between Sbarro's and authentic Italian (from what I remember of Italy).

The sauce is the best! Great mix of real tomato and spices.
The crust is also wonderful. It's not too thin like Shakey's but not thick like a pan pizza. It's almost like Yellow Cab but better and softer!
Toppings are limited but that's fine since it's a pizza that can stand on its own with out all the multitude of toppings. A basic Margharita (fresh tomatos and basil) or plain pepperoni is good enough for me!

Pasta is ok. Nothing special. But we like the Carbonara and Italian Cheese.

They deliver by the way. So go get some now!!!

Monday, August 8, 2005

DS-Tres!


L-R: Leeyaj, Leland, Paul, Clare, Patty, Nic, Jill, EJ, Bryan, Minic's GF, Minic

Ateneo Development Society Majors 2003

Misc Pix of Mia and Me


=)

Me and my pangga! =)

Family Pix


Top: Christian, Nic, Carlo
Bottom: Kloe, Mia, Papa, Mama, J-An

Various family pictures =)

Wednesday, August 3, 2005

THE SACRAMENT OF WAITING

 


I got this from a friend... I guess before it hasn't really struck me since I'm very lucky to have someone I really love and loves me back already... but then since I'll be leaving... there's a lot of waiting that's going to happen... and if we pursue what we have... more waiting again... so as the article says... life is about waiting in stages... though I'm done waiting for THE ONE... it's time to wait and see whether it is possible to BE ONE. =)


 


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The Sacrament of Waiting


 


The English poet John Milton wrote that those who serve only also stand and
wait. I think I would go further and say that those who wait render the
highest form of service. Waiting requires more discipline, more self-control
and emotional maturity, more unshakable faith in our cause,more unwavering
hope in the future, more sustaining love in our hearts that all the greatest
deeds of deering-do go by the name of action.

Waiting is a mystery - a natural sacrament of life - there is a meaning
hidden in all the times we have to wait. It must be an important mystery
because there is so much waiting in our lives.
Everyday is filled with those little moments of waiting (testing our
patience and our nerves, schooling us in self-control.) We wait for meals to
be served, for a letter to arrive, for a friend to call or show up for a
date. We wait in line at cinemas and theaters, concerts and circuses. Our
airline terminals, railway station s and bus depots are great temples of
waiting filled with men and women who wait in joy for the arrival of a loved
one - or wait in sadness to say goodbye and give the last wave of hand. We
wait for springs to come - or autumn - for the rains to begin and stop.And
we wait for ourselves to grow from childhood to maturity. We wait for those
inner voices that tell us when we are ready for the next stop.

We wait for graduation, for our first job, our first promotion. We wait for
success and recognition. We wait to grow up - to reach the stage where we
make our own decisions. We cannot remove this waiting from our lives. It is
a part of the tapestry of living - the fabric in which the threads are woven
to tell the story of our lives.Yet current philosophies would have us forget
the need to wait "grab all the gusto you can get." So reads one of
America's greatest beer ads - get it now! Instant pleasure, instant
transcendence. Do not wait for an ything. Life is short - eat, drink and be
merry because tomorrow you will die. And so they rationalize us into
accepting unlicensed and irresponsible freedom- pre-marital sex and extra
marital affairs - they warn against attachments and commitments - against
expecting anything of anybody, or allowing them to expect anything of us -
against dropping any anchors in the currents of our life that will cause us
to hold and wait.

This may be the correct prescription for pleasure - but even that is
fleeting and doubtful - what was it Shakespeare said about the mad pursuit
of pleasure - "Past reason hunted, and once had, past reason hated."


Not if we wish to be real human beings, spirit as well as flesh,
soul as well as heart, we have to learn to wait. For if we never learn to
wait, we will never learn to love someone other than ourselves.

For most of all waiting means waiting for someone else. It is a mystery,
brushing by our face everyday like a stray wind of leaf falling from a tree.
Anyone who has loved knows how much waiting goes into it - how much waiting
is important for love to grow, to flourish through a lifetime.Why is this?
Why can we not have it right now what we so desperately want and need? Why
must we wait - two years, three years - and seemingly waste so much time?
You might as well ask why a tree should take so long to bear fruit - the
seed to flower - carbon to change to diamond/There is no simple answer - no
more than there is to life's other demands -having to say goodbye to someone
you love because either you or they have made other commitments; o r because
they have to grow and find the meaning of their own lives - having yourself
to leave home and loved ones to find your own path - good-byes, like
waiting, are also sacraments of our lives.

All we know is that growth - the budding, the flowering of love needs
patient waiting. We have to give each other a time to grow. There is no way
we can make someone else truly love us or we them, except through time. So
we give each other that mysterious gift of waiting - of being present
without asking demands and rewards. There is nothing harder to do than this.
It truly tests the depth and sincerity of our love. But there is life in the
gift we give.So lovers wait for each other - until they can see things the
same way - or let each other freely see things in quite different ways.

There are times when lovers hurt each other and cannot regain the balance of
intimacy of the way they were. They have to wait - in silence - but still
present to each other - until the pain subsides to an ache and then only a
memory and the threads of the tapestry can be woven together again in a
single love story. What do we lose when we refuse to wait; when we try to
find shortcuts through life - when we try to incubate love and rush blindly
and foolishly into a commitment we are neither mature nor responsible enough
to assume? We lose the hope of truly loving or of being loved. Think of all
the great love stories of history and literature - isn't it of their very
essence that they are filled with this strange but common mystery - that
waiting is part of the substance -the basic fabric against which the story
of that true love is written.How can we ever find either life or true love
if we are too impatient to wait for it?

Waiting is a good thing only if something is worth waiting for. How will you
know if it's worth it? Gut feel. What if you don't trust your gut? Pray. You
will be enlig htened. Trust me. Is it wrong to expect while waiting? It's not
wrong, but it will increase your chances of heartbreak and disappointment if
things don't work out in the end. Is it good to expect while waiting? It is
better to HOPE.What's the difference between hoping and expecting? HOPING
means you're open to either side of the coin landing though you're more
inclined to believe that things will turn out well. EXPECTING means you're
thinking single-track...which won't do you much good at all.What's the
difference between waiting and expecting? EXPECTING is waiting for something
TO DEFINITELY HAPPEN. WAITING is staying where you are, but not necessarily
expecting something to happen definitely.

Do you need assurance from someone you're waiting for while you're
waiting?Ideally, yes. But realistically, do you really want assurance from
this person? It's so easy to just point at something and make that the
reason why you're waiting ("Because she said..." "Because he
told me that..."). With WAITING, all you really can rely on are 3
things: your gut feel, your heart and mind. Just YOURSELF, not anyone
else.So should you wait? What does your gut say? How does your heart feel?
What does your mind think? If they're saying different things, keep asking
yourself these 3 questions (and pray!) until you get a solid answer.

THEN you'll know if he or she is worth waiting for.

Sunday, June 12, 2005

Sunday, May 22, 2005

Thursday, May 19, 2005

Table 7

Rating:★★★★
Category:Restaurants
Cuisine: International
Location:Ayala Mall Cebu City
It's not actually in the mall but rather in a building beside it with a number of other restaurants.

It's a nice place to have a lunch date or dinner. It has a live piano bar at night and has a good selection of alcoholic drinks as well.

The price? As low as P200 per person if you'll only order a main course each. But I'd say P300 per person should cover it with 1 drink each and
an appetizer/salad/soup. Add another P100 for dessert (shared).

The Food:

We loved the baked oysters with kesong puti.

Also try the Beef Fillet Mignon served with pasta. The bacon was really good and gave the tender beef that extra "oomph". Served with a gravy sauce and pasta, this is a winner for us.

The Pork and Sausage Succotash is also served with pasta but uses a tomato base. The sausage is good but I would have wanted it of the firmer type but the taste is perfect and doesn't overpower the dish with its "pepperyness". The pork cubes are soft and melts in your mouth. Some might not like this type of consistency but I find that it complements the pasta well. However since both the pork and the sausage are soft, I was looking for something with firm character which, again, I think the sausage should have.

Others:

Their fruit shakes are made with milk... I had watermelon and Mia had mango. They're ok. Nothing special.

Their special Iced Tea is basically Iced Lipton Tea (from the tea bag) shaken and served with syrup on the side.

The Dessert Factory

Rating:★★★★
Category:Restaurants
Cuisine: Desserts
Location:Ayala Mall Cebu City
Mia and I ate at this place two days in a row!

Their prices are reasonable and the food is pretty good. Nice place to bring a date or just hang-out with friends. Good for family bondings also.

They don't serve desserts only. They also have full meals like ribs, boneless crispy pata, sandwiches, and pasta. However, we weren't able to try any.

We did try the following:
Apple Pie ala mode - filling is good. firm apples and the cinnamon sauce was well balanced. the crust could be better but it was ok. the ice cream is one BIG scoop, so that's a plus.

Peanut Butter and Banana Ice Cream Cake - Mia loved the crust which has frozen banana mixed into it. I would have wanted a more peanut-buttery ice cream though but that's just me since i love peanut butter. Very good on a hot day and if you want something bordering on chocolate but not quite.

Chocomallow - A hot chocolate drink with marshmallows. The chocolate was thick and very very "chocolatey". And I'm a chocoholic and very particular about my chocolate. 5 stars for this!

Chocolate Milkshake - simple... a bit milky... but good. Don't expect something spectacular. It's really your run-of-the-mill chocolate milk shake.

Banana Smoothie - a bit milky but the banana taste was well balanced. not too sweet so it's a nice accompaniment to something really sweet.

Things I want to try:

Gooey Carrot Cake, Guilt-less Cheesecake, Blueberry-Lemon Parfait

Mia's Birthday in Cebu